
What are you trying to give your child that you didn't have?
Not the big obvious things. The small ones.
Curious to hear your answers.
The archive
Read it in any order. Some of it is funny, some of it is heavy, and some of it is just a Tuesday.
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Not the big obvious things. The small ones.
Curious to hear your answers.
Same question. Two very different lists.
Which list is running in your house?

I know I'll stand in this hallway one day and miss the mess.
No fighting. No chaos. Just this.

He licked a piece of chicken, looked me in the eye, and put it back.
Please tell me this is happening in someone else's house.

Nobody warned me both things would be true at once, every single day.
If I tell her it went well, it'll be my job forever.
Any other dads keep the wins to themselves?
I didn't have the energy to leave the house. It was 2 PM on a Tuesday.
Anyone else ever closed a perfectly open park?
Coming to the archive
Filtering by the stage you're in — because “Is this normal?” means something very different at six weeks and at sixteen.